Underwear or Naked is one of BMM’s signature themes: relaxed, social and built for Black men who enjoy ease, freedom and genuine connection in private settings.

 

Each event under this theme carries the same energy: comfortable, chilled, and open. The dress code says it all: underwear or nothing. What happens beyond that depends on the night. Some gatherings lean social, with drinks, games, and conversation; others move into softer, more intimate territory where chemistry takes the lead.

 

Music stays low, lights stay soft, and everything about the atmosphere encourages respect, consent, and comfort. Drinks and light snacks are always provided and every detail is curated to keep the space safe and effortless.

 

Whether it’s a small games night or a laid-back play evening, Underwear or Naked is about freedom: the kind that comes from being yourself among other Black men who understand the vibe.